Valentine’s Day 2018

Not everyone is a fan of Valentine’s Day. I get it. It’s cheesy and overly marketed. If you’re single, it’s just plain annoying. If you’re married, it can seem like a chore. Lots of people just prefer to pretend Valentine’s Day doesn’t exist.

I am not one of those people.

I’m a lover of all things shiny, fuzzy, sugary, flowery, and mushy. This holiday is totally in my wheelhouse. Gaudy decorations and cards? Check! An excuse to eat high calorie foods? Check! A reason to wear matching pink and red outfits with my kids? Check! Girly, corny, big fat love fest? I’m here for all of it.

Even when I was single, my girlfriends and I used Valentine’s Day as a day to get together, eat, drink, and commiserate about stupid guys. And I did it all while wearing a ridiculous red LOVE shirt.

So here’s how we spent our Valentine’s day as a family…


I don’t need a gift on Valentine’s Day, but doughnuts and flowers are a requirement. Also, I’m not above buying them for myself.


Extra bonus points if the doughnuts are heart shaped.


Our chalk wall next to the boy’s room. All the corniness!


I may have a sink full of dirty dishes most of the time, but darn it if my kids aren’t getting a special Valentine’s day breakfast every year! I can’t be good at everything! ๐Ÿ˜‰


You guys I actually attempted to form these cinnamon rolls into hearts. I failed. Just like I did last year. Maybe next year!


Mine and Chris’s Valentines for each other. We’re ridiculous.


Every year Chris and I pass a book back and forth taking turns writing a top 10 list for reasons we love the other person. I know, so cheesy. This was his #2 for me this year. It’s not NOT true.


Nolan is obsessed with football this year. These were his Valentines for his class.


Ready to taste test.


Brady is currently obsessed with Star Wars so his cards included a mini lightsabre and Star Wars gummies.


Of course Brady and to check and re-check his cards before distribution.


Gah! My loves!


I got to have a quick Starbucks date with Chris once we dropped the kids off at school. Of course I ordered the featured Valentine’s drink. Duh.


Brady’s sweet Valentine writing. I love his heart!

Even if you’re not a Valentine’s person, hopefully the day brought you some love and time with the ones you care about the most. And if nothing else, hope you got a heart shaped doughnut.


ChriSMITH 2017

The holidays with a 4 and 6 year old boy have got to be just about the sweetest thing ever. Yes, life is busy and chaotic, but there’s something about a child fully believing in the magic of Christmas that makes you want to slow down and enjoy every little moment. I love all the traditions that we’ve created with the boys that they now have begun to remember and look forward to. I love that we are now closer to extended family so we can share these moments with them. I even have started to love that freakin’ Elf on the Shelf. (Well, I love how much my kids love it!) Here are some pictures from the last month of all our festivities and adventures.

Decorating- this took forever this year…especially with the kids “helping.”


Chris’s handiwork on the fireplace looked so pretty with Christmas decorations.


My aunt gave me this hutch this year and it was my favorite spot during the holidays because of how pretty the Nativity looked on it!


Under the Christmas tree- any cat’s favorite spot.


Watching Rudolph, decorating the tree, reading Christmas books- all the holiday magic at once.


Putting up our Gator ornaments in the dining room. Look how nicely I ironed our table cloth. Ha!


That’s it. Stare at the T.V. while putting on ornaments. No big deal…I’m going to re-arrange them all when you go to bed anyways!

The Elf…man, did my kids love looking for her every morning.


Fun traditions…


Picking out our Christmas tree at our church tree lot.



Nolan’s first time on a horse at our neighborhood’s annual Winter Fest.


Neighborhood’s Winter Fest…Brady’s face! lol


Our family’s Christmas party at my Aunt Claudia’s beach condo.


Brady hard at work helping to build a sandman.


Nolan focusing so hard to paint our thank you cards for our annual St. Jude fundraiser.


Making Christmas cards for classmates. This was the first year Nolan could write his name on all the cards!


Decorating Gingerbread houses. AKA icing/candy eating game.



“Baking” Christmas cookies. Thank you Pillsbury! (When you’re busy, some things have to go. Homemade cookies weren’t happening this year.)



One cookie for Santa, four for me.


Nolan’s Pre-School Christmas pageant. Look at his little nervous face! But, he rocked it!


I could EAT him up!


Using up our Sea World passes before they expired. The boys love it there.


Nolan’s class party. I am going to miss these sweet parties with crafts and cookie decorating SO much! Sidenote: Why is his stuffed dolphin at the party? Who knows!


Celebrating Brady’s half birthday. 6 and a half!

Christmas week events…


My dad and Pat came to town before Christmas and we enjoyed some really warm Florida temps!


On our way to Christmas Eve service.ย 



My boys walking into church.


That time Nolan “accidentally” took the whole box of candy canes when the pastor was handing them out.ย 


Turns out I bought ALL of the cheese at Publix for the holidays. Oops.


Keeping our pizza on Christmas Eve tradition alive!



We made Ina Garten’s “Easy Sticky Buns” for Christmas morning. How easy is that?



Brady’s Christmas theme- weaponry and adventure. Sigh.ย 



You’ll shoot your eye out, kid.ย 



Chris being every dad on Christmas, assembling toys.

After Christmas moments…


Just being goofy


Two of my college besties came to visit us!


Gator girl kiddos are the cutest!


Cute couple alert! Brady was in love with my friend, Lucila.


Ikea during the holidays….whoa.


A few lazy moments here and there. (She’s not allowed on the furniture. Oops.)


Chris loves making pasta with the boys when he has time off!


Chris loves eating pasta all the time.ย 


New year’s eve dinner. Who’s ready for 2018 and carbs?!


Daily chaos and weird stuff going on.ย 


A little NYE apple juice toast/chug.



It got COLD in Florida!

The holidays did not disappoint this year- I only wish they could have lasted a little longer. Now onto those New Year’s resolutions- just as soon as we finish all the pasta leftovers.

Halloween 2017

It’s almost the end of November. What a perfect time to blog about Halloween. Oops, better late than never.

This year was an extra fun time for celebrating Halloween. The kids really get it, they enjoy dressing up, andย they have no fear ofย going up to strangers and begging for candy. I am enjoying these last few years of the cutesy, crafty, sweetย moments of pre-school and early Elementary school. Nolan had a Trunk or Treat event at his school and Brady’s grade did fun “Fall Crafts” that I got to help out with. Both kids had opportunities to wear costumes several times- at school, our neighborhood Fall Fest, and trick or treating. We went to a Pumpkin Patch/crop maze, painted pumpkins, and had friends over on Halloween night for a little party. Here’s some pictures from our favorite moments this October…



At our neighborhood costume contest.


Our trunk for Nolan’s Trunk or Treat event at pre-school.



We had SO many fake mustaches!



Our annual Jack-O-Lantern bean dip!



Valentine’s Day!

Valentines Day is a made up Hallmark holiday, sooo cheesy, way overrated, and I lurve it. Why the heck would anyone be against a holiday that promotes telling people how much you love them, surrounding yourself with flowers, and eating chocolate/champagne?!


If you have people in your life that love you, take the opportunity to show them you love them right back. Even if it’s as simple as a heart shaped grilled cheese! You could also take the time to slice strawberries into little hearts…just to have your kids tell you they taste funny. Ah, love!

My favorite Valentine tradition is indulging in complete gluttony with Chris. Nothing says romance like over-stuffing yourself with super rich pasta. This year we indulged the day before Valentine’s since Chris is traveling for work the rest of the week.


Sundried tomato, baby portabella, garlic, shallot, Alfredo with filet mignon. We like to show our love for each other with a side of borderline diabetes.

Valentine’s Day is also a great excuse to pretend you’re a skilled “Pinterest Mom.” This year we went with a Lego themed card for obvious reasons. I found the easiest free printable card, had Brady cut them out, and ordered a 2lb. bag of Lego candy from Amazon for the win!


I also love Valentine’s Day because it’s an excuse to drink champagne! I’m not sure if it’s our proudest parenting achievement, but our kids love when we pop bubbly!

Of course the best part of this oh-so-corny holiday, is lovin’ on your favorite people. In our family we use this day to not only tell each other “I love you” but we make a point to tell why we love each other. Chris and I have a scrapbook that we pass back and forth each year on Valentine’s Day with a list of the top reasons we love each other that year. This year it’s my turn to make the list for him. I used the fact that he’s out of town this week to postpone doing it until this weekend when we are doing a night away in St. Simons Island. We also made cards for each of the kids telling them why we love them. Love, love, love, love, LOVE! Super sweet, over the top, in your face, love! #NoShame #AllYouNeedIsLove #AndPasta

Happy Valentine’s Day Y’all! Find someone you love, and show ’em!

2016 ChristSMITH

This holiday season came and went so super fast! (That seems to happen every year.) While there was lots of hustle and bustle of travel, gift buying, parties, and baking, we were able to find time for lots of simple moments with the boys. They really enjoyed listening to Christmas music (and haven’t stopped singing holidays songs yet), finding our Elf “Pixie” every day, and seeing what Advent Calendar activity we would do each day. We try to fill our calendar with a mix of fun moments for the boys and activities that will help them learn to enjoy the spirit of giving. Here are some ofย the highlights andย special moments from this past month…


Delivering presents to our trash collectors!


Mommy/Brady day date


Gato doesn’t understand the Elf on the Shelf craze either.





We said goodbye to our sweet boy Albert on December 1. Christmas just wasn’t the same without him this year.


Thank you to my sweet friend Lindsay for sending us this adorable ornament to help us honor our fur-baby.



Shopping day to buy gifts for our teachers



Decorating Christmas cookies at Aunt Claudia’s house





Nolan’s Christmas program at school. He was a big ol’ bundle of nerves but he conquered his stage fright and gave the cutest performance!



One of our boys’ favorite things to do during the holidays is put money in the Salvation Army bucket.



We always take turns taking each kiddo to buy presents for their brother and mommy and daddy. On this occasion Brady insisted on buying me this fancy red polish.


Christmas movies! Our favorites this year were Elf on the Shelf and Rudolph.



Chris surprised us by buying an inflatable hot tub for our patio. We have all enjoyed it this month!



North Florida has perfect fire pit weather in December! Lots of S’Mores were eaten.



Our Gator tree which Nolan claimed as his own.


I got to volunteer in Brady’s class a lot recently and Chris even got to spend the afternoon doing Winter Crafts with his class one day.


Date night checking out the Nights of Lights in St. Augustine. I am a SUCKER for Palm Trees with Christmas lights!

Christmas Eve…




Sweet boys before the Christmas tree pose turned into a wrestling match

Christmas Day…




Christmas day selfie with my big boy!




Poor kiddo passed out before Christmas dinner and missed the whole thing.




Intense Lego building with Grandpa on Christmas night.

Christmas vacation trip to LEGOLAND…


Our boys surprise Christmas present- LEGOLAND Passes!


Brady loved the Lego city- especially the space shuttle.


With Brady on the Sky High ride.


Nolan loved the Duplo train ride!

New Years Eve…


Fishing in our neighbor’s backyard


In awe of sparklers!


Making homemade pasta with daddy!


Saying goodbye to 2016 the right way!


Toasting to the Netflix ball drop countdown.


I can’t imagine anything better than experiencing the holidays with a 3 and 5 year old. Seeing Christmas through their eyes was so special and nothing short of magical. We are certainly blessed in many ways and look forward to what adventures 2017 will bring our family. Happy New Year!


For our first Thanksgiving back in Florida, we decided to host dinner at our new home. We had my Aunt, cousin, his girlfriend, my mom, and Chris’s brother and his family join us. It was a very relaxing day full of food, football (Thank you Jesus for letting the Cowboys win for Chris) and fun. The kids played outside in the bounce house while we got to have adult beverages and play corn hole and enjoy the perfect weather.

Here are some pictures from not only Thanksgiving day, but also a few from the Thanksgiving celebrations at the kids’ schools.


Please note the little turkey in orange and blue who is blowing kisses to his mommy and daddy before his performance!



Look at that little Indian! Side note: Nolan put down an embarrassing amount of chicken nuggets at his school feast.



Thank God he used the non-Fitbit arm. Ain’t nobody got time for a fitness tracker in their turkey.


It just doesn’t feel like Thanksgiving without Grandma Dot’s pumpkin bread.


Me, Aunt Claudia and mom


Brady all tuckered out after a day of food and fun. (Again, obsessed with sleeping pictures!)

The day after Thanksgiving we went to Savannah to spend time with my dad and Pat. We got to hang out downtown, see Santa, go to our annual Christmas light event at the Botanical Gardens, and watch the Gators get destroyed by FSU (boo.)



The only Santa lap Nolan will be sitting on this year!




So much to be thankful for, today and always!






This Halloween was one of my favorite with the boys. They got SO into it! Trick or treating was super enjoyable because the boys are finally at an age where they can walk on their own and go up to houses without our help. (We stood on the sidewalk sipping our adult beverages reminding them to say thank you.) We also got the benefit of having my mom nearby so she was able to participate in Nolan’s Trunk or Treat event at his school and hang out on Halloween night.



Our not-so-elaborately decorated trunk. We’ll step it up next year! (Maybe.)


We loved spending the morning at Nolan’s school on Halloween. Little stinker.



Spoiler alert: the boys have already been talking about their costumes for next year.ย Nolan wants to be a, wait for it, mosquito.